How does one succeed in life?

Hangs out with loser friends.

What I need from you?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

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If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Is the Philippines PH a poor 3rd world or 4th world country forever and forever?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

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Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

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Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Do you believe that Jesus was God on Earth?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Ask yourself:

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

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Living to your full potential is a goal.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

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Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

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Saving $10,000 is a goal.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Why is Jack Smith arguing that presidents should not have full immunities as Trump is requesting?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Could some kind lady post me a photo of her hairy spread pussy? It has become extremely difficult to find new amateur photos and I would be infinitely grateful.

Making more friends is a goal.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

That's it for today.

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How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

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Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

When you visit a store, do you go to shop or buy?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Does not procrastinate.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Procrastinates a lot.